Life at the Donkey Paradise

This honest and personal account was written by a Volunteer at The Donkey Paradise

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« In the larger context of my life so far, coming to The Donkey Paradise was a very good decision. I could call it one of the best, but I’m trying not to sound overly emotional. 

I had been wasting away in a university library for two years when I decided to quit my studies and come here instead. I’m gonna be honest, it’s kinda hard to tell people you’re throwing away a promising future to go and work on a donkey farm. But I felt like that was what I needed to do and I’m fairly sure I was right. The thing is that volunteering isn’t just traveling. It’s sharing people’s lives for a little while. It’s sharing their work and their joys and their troubles as well I suppose. 

Growing up, it was natural to me that I would get a degree, get a well-paying job, buy a house and have kids as quickly and efficiently as possible. As my parents had done and as all my friends’ parents had done. And for a long time I was alright with that idea, it was nice to be certain of what the future held. But the longer I studied, the less I could stand thinking of the future and of spending eight hours a day for a large part of the rest of my days doing a job that I wasn’t remotely passionate about. And I did try to muster up some passion, I really did, but I just didn’t have it in me.

The problem I was faced with then was that I had grown up with limitless hot water from a tap and central heating and shopping as a way to pass time. And I guess I had realized years before that, that material things don’t make me happy – 

But then who was I to declare a thing like that when I had never experienced life without them.

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It is November and the days are warm and beautiful, but at night it gets cold. If the stove isn’t kept lit in the afternoon, then the temperature inside the Cabana is the same as outside. I take one of my sweaters underneath my duvet with me to sleep, so that in the mornings I have something warm to put on underneath another sweater, a hoody and a coat on top. What I’m trying to say is that it’s really goddamn cold and getting out of bed in the mornings is tough. But then we feed the donkeys breakfast and afterwards we gather in the warm, cozy dining/living room of the main house and we have Marleen’s glorious, warm porridge and the sun rises and several times a day we nudge each other and motion towards the view of the Picos and we stand there and take in the beauty of this place. 

I’m trying hard not to romanticise things. There’s more to frugal life than saving money on heating. There’s no Wi-Fi here and we try not to shower more than twice a week and sometimes there are water shortages and we can’t shower for days on end and in my first two nights here I seriously considered leaving. But once you have gotten used to things, and you get used to them very quickly, it becomes second nature and you start enjoying things like sitting in front of a lit stove at night or finally taking that warm shower.

So yeah, sometimes it’s cold and hard but at night, we sit around the table after a well-earned and wonderful homecooked dinner and for hours we do nothing but laugh and laugh about the weirdest things and life is good.

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That’s an expression I’ve heard a couple of times here: “It’s a good life.” And it is.


Paraiso del Burro, 17.11.2018

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Photos by:-

Vincent Galiano

 

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About El Paraiso del Burro

The donkey paradise or "El Paraiso del burro" is a charity registered in Spain to help old and abandoned donkeys to live out the remainder of their lives in a peaceful location with other donkeys in a similar situation. It is run entireley on donations from the public.

Posted on December 14, 2018, in animal care, animal refuge, Asturias, Donkey charity, Donkeys, Nature, Volunteering. Bookmark the permalink. 4 Comments.

  1. What a fabulous post, so heartfelt.

    I so miss you all at the farm, such a special place

    With fondest love, Trudy & Bramxx

    Trudy Kelly trudykelly3108@gmail.com 07850433169

    On Fri, 14 Dec 2018 at 10:41, The Donkey Paradise wrote:

    > El Paraiso del Burro posted: “This honest and personal account was written > by a Volunteer at The Donkey Paradise « In the larger context of my life so > far, coming to The Donkey Paradise was a very good decision. I could call > it one of the best, but I’m trying not to sound overly em” >

    • Lovely to hear from you Trudy. Im glad you enjoyed the blog and we hope to post more blogs on 2019 as we have been a bit remiss of late! A happy Christmas and a happy New Year to you and Bram.

  2. Stephen John Boyle

    I am writing to wish everyone at Donkey Paradise a happy Christmas and a great New Year.
    I was one of the producers on DONKEY PARADISE and don’t think I have told you we won the first Academy Award given a crowdfunded film,THE SILENT CHILD, on my last project that same year.
    I speak of you often.
    Love
    Stephen John Boylexx

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